Sand Castles
Our family spends a lot of time at the beach. As a true, born and raised local, my summer childhood memories include boats, waves, sand, and the smell of sunscreen. I’ve always loved everything about the beach, but I really loved building sandcastles…
Look Around
Have you ever sat down and simply thought of God’s mercy? The God of the universe not only intentionally created you and me with a specific purpose, He also desires to be in a relationship with us. Even though we mess up constantly, God constantly desires us…
One Wins Out
Like most twenty-somethings, when I graduated from college, I was living on a shoestring budget. Buying nice stuff was entirely out of the question. Luckily, people took pity on me and offered up their hand me downs…
Selling The Camaro
A strange tension was building in my gut as I waited for the appraisal of my Camaro. I was wrestling with the reality of having to get rid of my first car. Denise and I had been talking about the potential for our family to grow in a couple of years, and we knew the value on my car would only depreciate the longer we held onto it. But I was not ready to surrender my Camaro…
The Speed Of Trust
Seeing things from our limited perspective can get us into trouble. We react to our circumstances based off what we see and how we interpret the things going on around us. Feeling rushed forces faith to give way to certainty and hope to lose out over control. The perceived pressure leads us to feel overwhelmed, so we continue to force our way in a never-ending loop that leaves us exhausted…
Holding A Charge
I'm an introvert at my core, but recently the reason why I didn't call or text my friends and family is was due to me waiting for my dead phone to resurrect itself. A spotty battery had me playing the game of "what inconvenient time will my phone die?" daily…
Two Or Three
Do you ever read Scripture, and the more you read, the more confused you get? No? Maybe it’s just me…
Came To Our Rescue
Sitting on top of my fireplace mantle is a breathtaking picture of the North Carolina mountains that's near and dear to my heart. I didn't snap the photo, haven't had the opportunity to take in this serene view, and couldn't tell you the towns it overlooks. But, for me, it serves as a reminder that small acts of mercy can have profound impacts…
Never Goes Away
God is love. Those three words are some of the most powerful that exist in the human language. Those three words can change the hardest of hearts, and redeem some of the most broken lives. Once you get a true glimpse of God’s love, you are changed forever…
A Good List
I am not a big list person in day-to-day life. I enjoy having a sort of open-handed approach to each day and letting life throw what it has at me. My wife Denise though loves a good list. The more listed life could be for her, the better…
Suit Up And Show Up
"Suit up and show up." It's a charge I often give to the students and student-athletes whom I work with each day. While on the front end, I use it to motivate the individual to personal respect and preparedness, it might just be what's on the unspoken side that holds the real power. What I'm driving at is the power of community…
Undetectable
The smartphone, electronic device or laptop many of you are utilizing to read this post came from humble beginnings. Believe it or not, there was a day when technology wasn't at our fingertips or small enough to fit inside our pockets. What is now the world's most valuable brand started inside a plain old garage in the suburbs of Los Altos, California…
Childlike Faith
As a new dad, I think our son Ivey Brooks is incredible in every way, but to say He would be the greatest in heaven is a little bold, even for me. I mean, the greatest implies that there is something they do better than anyone else, and children (as well as parents) are learning life by trial and error. However, I think our adult brains forget the power a childlike approach has in relationships…
No Sugarcoating
The words of Christ found in The Sermon on the Mount were a revolutionary rallying cry that confronted the hypocrisy of the religious leaders of the day. Jesus’ message set the tone for all that would come afterwards…
Three-Legged Race
Once the air got crisp and the leaves began to change color, my elementary school held a fall festival. There was music, games, rides, and a wealth of food. Yet, for competitive kids like myself, taking home the ribbon as the winner of the three-legged race was the creme de la creme…
A Tugging Of The Heart
Reading through Colossians 1:3-14, it is evident how deeply Paul cared for the people of Colossae. Paul was in prison for teaching about Jesus, and Epaphras, a co-worker, came to visit and update Paul on how things were going. After hearing about the people of Colossae, Paul wrote a letter to encourage and challenge the people there…
A Little Bit Of Kindness
It seems to be a contradiction to consider that gentleness carries more power than roughness. But one of the most powerful attributes of a human being is gentleness…
Common Ground
In a speech to students at St. Louis University in 1964, Dr. Martin Luther King made an alarming appeal to his audience.
“We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools,” he said…
Simplify
For some reason, these verses always bring me back to high school sports. I’m not sure if it was something to do with FCA (Fellowship of Christian Athletes) or if I had a coach who taught something similar, but I remember hearing these words and knowing they were meant to be followed…