You’re A Leader
The reason I left you in Crete was that you might put in order what was left unfinished and appoint elders in every town, as I directed you. An elder must be blameless, faithful to his wife, a man whose children believe and are not open to the charge of being wild and disobedient. Since an overseer manages God's household, he must be blameless—not overbearing, not quick-tempered, not given to drunkenness, not violent, not pursuing dishonest gain. Rather, he must be hospitable, one who loves what is good, who is self-controlled, upright, holy and disciplined. He must hold firmly to the trustworthy message as it has been taught, so that he can encourage others by sound doctrine and refute those who oppose it. Titus 1:5-9
Insight
When discussing the topic of influence, the focus often remains on sharpening our leadership skills. Without even knowing it, this mindset places us on shaky ground. If our attention drifts to our ability, pride begins to creep in. We become the one who is solely responsible for the change.
We start to reason that if we have enough talent, charisma, and drive, we can accomplish any goal. So, we ensure this happens by any means necessary. Suddenly, our talent outpaces our character.
Our motives for influencing others become murky at best. We can very quickly shift towards manipulation and coercion in our relationships with others while playing image management. It's our power, prestige, and recognition that matters above all else.
Drive is what moves and compels us. Yet, it is our character that keeps our ambition in check and on the right road. So, it should come as no surprise that when Paul writes to Titus, he opens his letter listing the qualities that should define every leader's life.
Don't think you're off the hook because you might not "be in ministry" or have a title by your name. If you have breath in your lungs, you're a leader.
Even though furthering our leadership ability is essential, our competency will be of little value if we aren't trustworthy. Relationships, and the ability to lead, require trust. The freedom to trust resides on the sturdy foundation of love and integrity.
We must bring ourselves fully to our leadership so that our influence is the result of faith and obedience and not fear and force. It involves living one's life with an eye on God's purpose.
Reflection
Are there places where you're leaning on your talent to get you through and are ignoring the development of your character?
Prayer
God, rather than rely on my talent to make an impact, I desire for my character and integrity to lead the way. Let my life be one that points others towards You. In Your name, Jesus. Amen.
